With a few quick improvements, even an Average Joe can vastly improve his chances of getting laid - and getting laid often - on Adult Friend Finder. No matter whether your preference is single women, couples or groups, you'll have plenty to choose from so it's important to make the most of each opportunity.

Tip #1: Have class. Despite the fact that you're on a site where everyone's looking for sex, it's inappropriate to immediately delve into "fuck me" talk replete with graphic details from your sordid imagination. That's like jumping straight to anal sex without lube. Treat the people you contact and those who contact you with class and respect and you'll find that your response rate will increase significantly.

Tip #2: Try couples. There are many couples out there who love to showcase the little lady while the man just watches. Cuckold couples are far more plentiful than you think. Of course, you need to be able to perform with someone else watching or perhaps even jerking off in the corner, but most men find the situation empowering and can deliver a resounding sexual performance under the circumstances. Naturally, great performances get called back for repeats.

Tip #3: Contact all of your cupid matches. AFF has a fairly decent algorithm for matching people to what they are seeking so it's worth sending a note to anyone they pair you with.

Tip #4: Send face pictures. Most women and couples are innundated with cock shots so the ones who send a face picture tend to stand out from the rest. Surveys have indicated that women are 65% more likely to respond to a face picture than a shot of your dick (no matter how big your cock is).

Tip #5: Write a good contact letter. Take the time to sit down and write out a 2-3 paragraph introductionary letter that you can use over and over again with different women. But here's the key. When you paste it into each response, add one or two sentences that are particular to the ad you are responding to. Thus each resonse is "the same but different".

Tip #6: Be honest. There's nothing worse than setting up a meeting with a hottie only to be left standing with a hard-on at the bar because you were not what you said. This is a big no-no for most people. Women in particular are very safety conscious and will turn and walk rather than take a chance on you just because they're horny.

Tip #7: Broaden Your Horizons. No neet to turn bi or gay here, but you might consider having a tryst with a BBW (big, beautiful woman) once in a while. Some of them are only interested in performing oral on you and this can be a great treat as big girls must learn to suck cock well out of necessity. This will keep your wheels greased and your cock in good stamina and shape.